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The real reason why women over 40 date younger men.

 

Hello again,

 

More women over forty years of age and up are dating younger men. It’s just a plain fact, but the hidden truth about all of this, I am going to share with you now.
First of all, it’s not just about sex. That would be too simple. To even suggest that women are just a bunch of horny souls with no depth is absurd. It is not to suggest that sex is not a factor, because it is. However if you will take the time to dig a little deeper into the logic behind the sexual needs of women over 40 you will see that older men are playing a big part in running these women to younger men.

Let me explain;
I was doing some research on a dating site to gauge just how women feel about certain men in different age groups. I did not want to give away what the study was about, so I concealed it within a general needs and wants questionnaire. When the survey was completed it confirmed what I was trying to explain to a few men. The survey showed that women wanted athletic men generally over out of shape men. It went on further, but all the results I wont be getting into at this time.
One lady that was 52 years old and looking great, put on the very first line of her greeting that she is looking for a mature man in her age group that is athletic. I was able to interview her and found out that the main thing that she did not want was someone who could not keep up with her active lifestyle.

So after countless interviews and research I have confirmed what I suspected, women are dating younger men because most older men have become inactive and boring.

When men reach a certain age or a certain point in life, that they believe they have made it, they sometimes decide to slow down, to not stay fit, to take no adventures or risks any longer. In other words, they become boring as hell. George Burns, who lived to reach 100 years old, said it this way “we are all getting older, but that is no excuse to just get old”. These men have allowed themselves to be cautious about everything now, they are just happy to sit around at home and relax in front of the TV or get on to their emails.

Men, we are our own worst enemy for why older women date younger men. We men that are older need to get back into living a great lifestyle, one of adventure, but we can’t do this when we are tired everyday at 6pm and have no energy left. If the most we can lift up is a can with a refreshment inside, how is that going to lead to anything exciting. I am not suggesting we men do not recognize our limitations, but we men cannot think that after 20 years of allowing ourselves to get out of shape, this somehow going to be appealing to women.

Some women also date younger men because they too have gotten out of shape and not at their best. When this happens, young men will still see them as a challenge that they are willing to take on for the same reasons that young women date older men. It is for the status that may come from dating this particular older woman, or it might easily be the financial rewards available with being with this older date.

A lot of the women that date younger men regularly still have the same dating problems as in other age groups, mostly things like, men that cheat on them and all the normal things that go on with the opposite sex. Women might be looking long term and the young men are looking short term for example.

For the few women that have experienced a long term relationship and now are only looking for short term experiences, the availability of young men are abundant.

In conclusion, as with any age group, with any demographic, all of us in large part are looking for something real, something that will be fulfilling to us emotionally. We all need that connection and it comes easier with motion and activity. When we are all just sitting around waiting for what seems like death to many, that is not something to fill us up with expectation or any kind of compelling future. So why in the heck would a woman want to have to be tied up to this old ass, tired man, the answer is, she just does not and I may add, she should not either.

 

Thanks again for listening, this is ….
Christopher Bruce
Contact me – cbruceja@gmail.com
I am the founder of — THE MEASUREMENT OF A MAN
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