The measurement of a man – examines and even asks the questions about these things that can help make a relationship grow, can stimulate conversations and can provide answers to it all.
The topic: Why size does matter !
Hello again everyone,
Christopher Bruce here with another matter for you to think about.
Gentlemen I have good news for a few and bad news for many of you.
Size really does matter !
Yes – I said it – Even if it goes against what most of the so called experts on relationships, love or whatever has said before.
Well before every guy with something about 9 inches or more, breaks out in their Happy Dance or worse before every other man sporting a 6 incher or less size tool, decides its best to just die from shame –
Let me explain
We are human beings, and in this 21st century, the information highway is too darn big to ignore. We therefore, for better or worse, have been shown things and told things that as one person famously said “its on the internet, so it must be true”.
You see what I am getting at as yet, well let me continue, because of this wealth of information out there for everyone, and yes even free homemade porn, we are bombarded with pictures and videos of women and men having a great time sexually. Most if not all the men have at least a 9 inch weapon that they are working with. With this information readily available, we are being programed to think that only a big penis is good enough to get the job done.
Women do appreciate getting their hole filled up and men love it when its too tight to get it all in. So the picture is set in our heads that this is better. Plus its further ingrained by stereotypes and even comedy shows, where in it they have black men as naturally bigger than white men.
Here is the big news;
It is we MEN, more so than even women, that have put it in our heads that SIZE matters.
So certainly then, we are the ones willing to buy products that add 3 inches – willing to try pills and potions to gain some extra, that is needed and wanted so badly.
It is WE that are our own worst critics – It is WE that have made “sizing up” a billion dollar industry. So once money could be made off of size, the industry responded to demand and helped to push this size thing hard. I can’t blame them one bit, they are for profit nothing else. Even on regular TV their is a big advertiser that spends huge sums to promote the pills that they say makes more women like your growth and subsequently you more.
In porn their is advertising for getting a bigger penis directly and the hidden message by showing women satisfied with a big one and sad for the little guy. It is not women that are buying all these products, they are not giving it to the man they are with. Men are buying it like its “hot bread” as the old saying goes.
NO SIR – THE # 1 REASON THAT SIZE MATTERS – IS BECAUSE WE MEN – BELIEVE IT MATTERS
Now let me be clear, for some women the size is important. Make no mistake about that. I can remember one woman telling me that she told her man that even when she is screaming to stop, that its too big and killing her, he better not stop. She wants to feel the pain, even up to 2 days after having sex, to make her happy.
One of my clients did some videos for the porn industry, and made her some good money too. Anyway in reviewing the topic with her, she indicated that what she needed was a normal size BUT, more importantly, was a person that was in rhythm with her for an orgasm. She had bigger sizes that were not in tune with her, so they did not work out. She told me that some bigger guys have such a soft penis, that although it was nice to look at, she still preferred to have a hard – stiff one, even if it was a smaller size.
So many variables are in play when it comes to size people. The semi-stiff ones of any size are less pleasurable to some women.
A male client that I was working with to get past his “size phobia” because of his smaller size penis, felt that the only way to combat this, was to make oral sex his best skill. Well, in working with him and exposing the faults that go along with picking a person to be with only because of sex, he finally realized that what is really needed is some patience, that is what will allow you to find the right woman. For him it took many months, but he eventually got it and started dating again with someone that liked him on so many levels, one that also enjoyed his sexual desires, one that had a good fit for him.
I am not speaking of a woman with a tiny vagina, as the good fit, I am referring to a woman that fit him emotionally and sexually. A person that could work with him, while he got some counseling (which I was happy to provide online) and allow them to discuss fears and other concerns, so that they could continue moving forward. Now he has fun with his woman, he is satisfied and she is too.
Another lady that I asked to contribute to my topic said – size matters because it contributes greatly to how much satisfaction she would have in her partner. She continued with this, if its too long it will be a challenge and painful if not during then afterwards. If its too small, it will only tease me and provide no satisfactory ending. With an average size, she said, it can still rub the walls and penetrate the G-spot a little bit easier which amounts to sweet bliss for her.
It is upon us MEN to start realizing that not all will be blessed with a 14 inch penis, not all will be blessed with one that can stay erect, some will have one that doesn’t even get any further than semi-soft.
Some of us will have it all and then we get a medical problem that then causes us to have new challenges.
For the young people, for the old, and for the young at heart – work with what God gave you.
Some women will not want you based on your small size – move on – she was not the one.
The reason things happen is to humble us and keep us grounded. We are all flawed. It’s just not necessary for MEN to fall into the trap of believing that, it was penis SIZE alone that matters.
Side note to women: your body SIZE matters too. Not every man is going to be happy with you skinny as a rail and not every other man is going to want you 150 pounds overweight. If you are unhappy where your weight is concerned, be proactive and do something about it. However, as I said to men here, if your size is the main concern – move on – they might not be the one for you.
We all need to be concerned with our health – but everything should be with balance, I believe.
Note: Do not make your adventure into a nightmare. Disease is real – Protect yourself at all times.
Thanks again for listening, this is ….
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