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Why men want to squirt a good amount of semen.
I know for many reading or listening you think this is not a big issue. Well let me wake you up sleeping beauty, this one is big. Men just as women, want to please. Its with that in mind that men are in so many ways trying to live up to standards set by individuals that they don’t even know.
I have a person who is a healthy 29 year old male client, who by all appearances, is a good catch for a woman. He is muscular and well groomed, with a decent paying job. His only problem is that after breaking up with his last girl, she hit him with a gut punch. She hit him below the belt. What made it hurt the most he said, was that it was the truth.
She told him she did not enjoy sex with him because his penis never really he did anything but shot out a small drip of semen. She wanted a real man. Ouch !!!!
Well this fact was impossible for him to let go. So he tried this and that until it just got more frustrating and thus provided him with more tension in the bedroom, which lead to less sexual pleasure, which led to even more frustration. Well when he emailed me his problem, we worked out a gameplan that got him past the obvious hurdle of having a more firm erection and then on to providing him some exercises and methods to improve his “engine thrust”. After a few months and seeing improvements, he was a new man again.
This is a common case, its just that men have a hard time telling it.
It’s often very difficult for men to admit that problems occur in the bedroom. This is partly because we all try to portray to the other how we are “killers” when sex time rolls around. So without freedom of speech, we all are suffering silently. Well this is why my email service and many others like it are so valuable. You can feel free to ask things that otherwise you may never ask a good friend even.
So to answer the topic of WHY MEN WANT TO SQUIRT OUT A GOOD AMOUNT OF THEIR SEMEN, its because a lot of people think that every man does. Men think that everyone but them is pushing out a big load and only they are unable to deliver like they are certain their lady secretly wants.
Well my friends, some ladies love for a man to squirt out a huge load, others like a good load in their face or chest or wherever. These ladies are just ones that enjoy this type of proof of satisfaction from their man. Its nothing wrong, as we have mentioned in blog # 12 on sperm, its made up of things that are mostly good for you, unless your man has a disease. So getting sperm on you or in you is not at all like bleach.
Other ladies don’t want it like that. It is another myth that MEN have perpetuated over and over that all women love it when you squirt all over them.
As can be proven over time, eventually all men will lose the power to thrust out sperm, if we do not take all the necessary steps with our body, which is healthy living, eating and exercising ourselves. Also a certain amount of luck is involved too, because our health can go bad just a little and our meds for keeping our health in check, leads us into sexual problems.
My oldest client was 73, he was still sexually active and had a younger girlfriend of 28 years old. He was seeking my help with his sexual stability and functions. One thing led to another and his GF became a client as well. After a couple of sessions, she told me in confidence that she did not mind the sex, she actually liked him, she just wanted him to explode on her face because it’s what she liked, but she said all he could manage was to cum out a little drip at a time.
Well this challenge was extreme, yet it took less time than most others, we worked out a solution that both of them agreed was the best option given all the circumstances, like his age for one. We were able to increase his fluid volume in 4 weeks. She had to also be realistic in her expectations of a man his age, so when that was done. I showed them one last secret to allow them both to get her happier.
Please do not feel you are alone in your problems or difficulties. So many new solutions and old remedies that can be of use is out here. So its just no need not to ask and get some help.
Men want to squirt because they think its necessary to prove extra virility, or because they think women want it all over them. They have been convinced by porn and to some extent women in general, that rate a man by this measure as well. Women rarely say it when you only can provide a little squirt, but most of it is spoken with their eyes or actions right afterwords.
In the early time of man, your ability to produce a good amount of sperm was used as an indication that you may be more likely to bear children, so at that time, this was very useful. Women of child bearing age wanted to have the most likely man that could produce, so the young, strong and large semen producers were chosen over others.
While this and or other things like your ability to perform any sexual act, should not be the most compelling thing for having a relationship with someone today, it still does for many.
The very most important thing I believe is your ability to be intimate, and in love of your partner. Then it makes the time spent in bed with any challenges much more pleasing to you and them. It still is about a willingness to share.
What we want is someone that can share our passions and desires.
Men want to prove that you made a good choice by picking this sexual stud that squirts out a good load, just like he has seen in porn or believes is necessary.
However, for many in the population, a lot of factors come into the equation, like age, exercise, health or lack their of, medications being taken ect. Its not just men with problems, its equally men and women.
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